Evening

Sweet and simple

“You know when we are young, we all look for handsome guys, kan?”says my client. “Handsome, charming, rich ... I used to wonder how andwhy I ended up with my husband. Poor. Not very handsome..."

Who am I to talk about love...I'm still a beginner, still learning and always will be.

I was that typical young ones; dreaming of ending up with a handsome man, both the face and pocket.

But as I grew up, the perspective changed.

And now (Alhamdulillah) I ended up (and hopefully will last) with a man that InsyaAllah possess the qualities that I need (Allah knows the best) instead of what I want. He's not a perfect 10, but so do I.

His patience, his ability to accept me for who I am, less judgmental, his optimism, his talent to tell lousy jokes :) plus his sanity :) are the reasons I fell to him...

Not as tall as KLCC (I always dreamt for a tall husband, I'd be the shortest in the family portrait...haha what a dream) and he's not a Borneon man, but thank God, he's okay with the idea to stay in Sabah, forever (Aminn)...so far...

Reading the article by Alexandra Wong, remind me of my confusing days...
To accept him or wait for another...
To marry him or not to...
And never forget the days of searching the one :)

Tons of advices and opinions from trusted friends and family, continuous doa . I even planned to make a list on what I like and what I don't like about him, SWOT analysis konon :) ...but I never did...

It's our 10th day anniversary :) ... and we still have mooore to learn and looooong way to go.

I just hope the love, the care, the respect, the tolerance, the happiness, the understanding, the tranquility as well as the forgive and forget that Allah bestows us will continue...for ever.

And as for love...love to me is acceptance, friendship and care...as well as fate.

No need to prepare as it will hit you without warning...just open up and give yourself an opportunity (a trusted friend's wise advice)...and doa a lot for His Rahmat and petunjuk :)


P/S: I felt so happy when a goodfriend showed his optimism about his future...and really like when he opted insyaAllah to answer a friend's question...God willing, God willing :)