One of my hopes is to stop being judgmental...I try so hard to be one.
Now guilt strikes me...I checked a blog and I the first thing I saw was the blogger photo, and that's it!
Judgment!
Then I scrolled up, and started to read the post! Dang!...That's when I realised I've been judgmental. What a shame!
Astagfirullah...why is it so hard to be come non judgmental...Oh God, please give me the willpower...
Judgmental is not stating an opinion or even labeling something as "good" or "bad". Being judgmental is when based on one quality of someone or something you conclude about his whole nature, about all his other qualities. You judge his wholeness based on one aspect.
For example, it is not judgmental to say that "this man who committed a crime did a bad thing", it is an opinion (which can be accepted or not). However, it is judgmental to say that "this man who committed a crime is a bad man".(www.gurufeets.com)
I feel a little bit relieve after reading this article. Unfortunately, I think there's a very thin line (almost invisible) between stating an opinion and being judgmental.
To Mrs/Miss XXX, I am so sorry...jahat betul aku!
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